Beyond Genes

Momma loves taking pics of Imaya in the sun!!

2010-04-03T21:54:00.004-05:00

OUTSIDE

I love how beautiful these turned out. My favorites thus far!

An all day cousin afair...

2010-04-03T19:59:00.006-05:00

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A bridal shower for my cousin Samantha was held on April 3rd, 2010. All the girl cousins were in attendance, minus 2 (Tangy and Darcy). Not bad for the Halland crew. It was so nice outside that our babies were able to go outside and play. They were having so much fun that Jack starting crying when his playmates left :( I am so thankful for the family time we get with cousins. Some of my best memories of my childhood include my cousins. Love you guys...

Photoshoot by Erin....ebbphotography.com

2010-03-31T15:38:00.000-05:00

Aren't these just fabulous!?

Stairs...no problem!

2010-03-30T21:25:00.003-05:00

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I didn't realize how Maya had gotten so good at going up the stairs. We went to Grandma Becky's one day and Maya went all the way up the stairs. Here is a preview of her progress with one step at Grandpa Mac's house. What next...dating? I'm not ready for this!

First pictures of Imaya outside.

2010-03-27T21:51:00.004-05:00

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While we were in Missouri visiting Daddy, I decided to go outside for some pics. It was a little bit windy, so we needed to leave our jackets on. But who could resist taking pictures in Maya's beautiful lamb coat she got! It is just too precious. I love it even more after we washed it because it really looks like matted lamb skin...too cute!

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I want to take a quick moment to point out Maya's cute, adorable eyebrows. It is so fun to watch her facial expressions. She is just like mommy, if she is mad, you will know by her eyebrows!

Yummy...

2010-03-16T23:22:00.003-05:00

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Maya loves her eating times.

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Ever since Maya was a little baby she has enjoyed eating. It seems that she can't get enough food. I have had to learn how to distract her after her meal is completed so she doesn't cry. Usually at night, I will feed her half a container of veggies and half of desert. Yummy...momma loves desert...best part of the meal. Sometimes, there is no meal...just desert. Anyway, after the meal Maya will need to have her pacifier, eat some sweat potato or cheddar puffs, or play a game. Then, usually before bed Maya will have another three ounces of milk to drift her off to sleep. The other night when I was snuggling with her I hear her giggling. I wonder what babies dream of? Bottles and Cheese puffs? If we only knew!

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Milestones:

Started eating pureed foods: 6 months

Started eating table food: 7 months

Started drinking from a sippy cup with help: 7 1/2 months

Figured out how to drink out of sippy cup by herself: 8 months

Sat in high chair at restaurant: 8 months

Used high chair at home: 6 months

I don't know how I missed it...

2010-03-16T22:59:00.005-05:00

The other day I realized that Maya has been pushing herself up to a sitting position. I remember awhile back when she still had her arm propping her up...but I guess I missed when she officially was able to sit up herself. There are so many moments that I guess I just missed that one...so, I have been camera crazy lately so I don't miss anymore!!

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Maya loves to look out the window. Since it has been so nice the last couple of nights, Maya has been looking out the patio door watching all the kids ride their bikes back and forth. I should have taken her outside today but by the time groceries were put away it was time to start settling down. Can't wait until the weekend so we can go for a walk!

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This evening the fun event was the kitchen...yeah! Not exactly sure how you keep kids out of cupboards that don't have handles. Maybe I'll have to look into that one!

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Maya is almost 9 months old. OMG...where did the time go. She is a lot more chatty now than a month ago. dadadada is her favorite. I'm trying mamamam...but that doesn't come out quite so easily. I have noticed that if you say ya, she will usually respond with something that sort of sounds like ya. It is kind of cute because recently her big cousin Jackson has starting saying ya. Not sure that his momma is too excited about this as you hear yes, Jackson, yes shortly following the "ya." Too cute. Big cousin Jackson has become Maya's best buddy. Jackson started attending daycare with Maya and second cousin Nolan and Grady about a month ago. I like to think that Jackson is Maya's bodyguard at daycare. I do have to say how cool it is that Maya goes to daycare with her cousins. Something that I never got to do...jealous. Who wants to sit and play with cousins all day....me!!

Maya's a big girl now!

2010-03-14T10:54:00.004-05:00

Look at me...I can sit in a high chair.

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This was actually the second time she sat in a high chair but momma forgot her camera yhe first time. I have to say it is so much fun for her to sit up and interact with us at the table! I am still really leery of solid foods so we are still eating Gerber graduates at the table.

This whole high chair bring up something that I want to point out to all mom's out there. If a restaurant tries to tip one of these high chairs over to use as a car seat holder....do not do it. These high chairs are not level and your baby could easily fall off! I don't know how many times someone tried to bring one for me...no thank you!

Window lighting photo shoot

2010-03-13T11:11:00.006-06:00

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Maya was watching out the patio doors at a dogie going to the bathroom. It was so cute that I just had to get the camera out. It is moments like this that I am glad that I have my camera.
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My camera is my new baby and I bring it just about everywhere I go. I am getting really excited for it to get nice outside so I can take pictures of Maya with the natural light. No flash photography for this girl. Maybe in the future I will get into lights and flashes. It is just so difficult to figure out where to put the lights and etc. Plus, I really like the random posed...light photos.
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Maya's new hairdo.

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This was accomplished by saturating Maya's hair with water and oil. I just took a water bottle and put a little bit of oil in it. Then, when she was eating a bottle I just started taking small sections and winding them around my finger. The ringlets were much longer before they dried. It look about an hour to dry all the way through. It is best if she doesn't lay on it before they dried...but she didn't quite make it this day.

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It doesn't look like Maya's hair is very long here...but it is! I can't wait for her to have beautiful long, curly locks! This was so much fun and looked so cute. I will be doing this hair style more often!

Maya's First Friend Birthday Party

2010-03-05T14:06:00.006-06:00

Happy Birthday Riley

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Maya was invited to her first burthday party for a friend. I know I was excited...not sure what Maya thought of the whole thing. On Friday, March 5th, Riley Minar, son of Jamie Minar, celebrated his first birthday. The night was filled with birthday cake, presents, and swimming. Yes, Maya had her first bite of frosting. I decided to hold back on the actual cake as I am still very cautious of feeding her table food. Athough, I shouldn't be because everytime she is with grandma Elbert or nana (great grandma McDougall) I get reports of Maya eating lots of table food. Maybe I am not ready for my little girl to grow up yet...I'm not sure. Then, Maya helped Riley open up his presents. Of course, Maya went right for the tissue paper as paper is one of her favorite things. Get her near a magazine, newspaper, toilet paper, or anything of the sort and she is after it. Maya also helped Riley break in all of his new toys...as we had to taste them all to make sure they were o.k. to play with. Then, we all headed for the pool. It was Maya's first time in the pool. I think she was unsure of herself as she wasn't too playful as she is in the bathtub. I believe I will be starting swimming lessons this month so I hope she warms up to the water :) We had a great time and can't wait to go to our next party.

Superbowl Sunday...

2010-02-07T20:40:00.001-06:00

A day of firsts...

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Superbowl Sunday brought us lots of firsts. First a birthday party. Big Cousin Jackson turned 2 and we celebrated with him. Maya had her first teeth poke through....and Maya started crawling. Now, I had said before she was crawling...but more like doing the worm. She would inch across the floor with both hands in front of her and bring up both feed like a worm slithers across the floor. Lunge by lunge she would get across the floor. So, when I saw her taking one hand and one foot and learning to crawl, I got really excited. I think she covered every inch of Grandma and Grandpa Elbert's floor. It is going to be hard to keep track of her now! Lots of first today...too much for mommy in one day!

Mayas first photo shoot

2010-02-03T14:10:00.011-06:00

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Well, they didn't turn out too bad. The first round always has much room for improvement. However, I am trying to get as much improvement in before baby baril comes...so you may see more photo shoots in the near future!

Some of my favorites thus far...

2010-02-02T16:44:00.005-06:00

What do you think?

Ho Ho Ho...

2009-12-25T16:11:00.002-06:00

The best gift of all this Christmas is our baby girl Maya.

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Merry Christmas. We hope that you all had a wonderful Christmas filled with family, fun, and lots of memories to cherish forever. The collaboration of pictures above is from the many Christmas gatherings we attend over the season. This year we had four, but missed one due to the ridiculous weather. Maya and I were fortunate that the streets were plowed enough so we could get across town on Christmas Eve to get to Grandma McDougall's house.

I had to put the naked pic in...that was the only picture I got on Christmas Eve. I ended up snapping a few right before church. She is growing so much it is hard to imagine that she is 6 months old. Where did the time go? I hear all the time that kids grow fast, but that is definitely an understatement. You don't really know how fast they grow until you experience it yourself. I will try to keep her momas girl as long as I can! But in all reality, my baby will soon no longer be a baby! Hopefully, when she grows up she will still like to cuddle with mama!

My first attept at family photos...

2009-12-14T16:24:00.008-06:00

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While TJ was in ND for Imaya's baptism, I decided to take some family photos. This is my first attempt, so no laughing please! Slowly, but surely I hope to be able to take wonderful, striking photos. Once and awhile I get a good one. However, I seem to be better taking non-posed, in the moment photos. One thing I have learned is that lighting is very important. However, it is very difficult to master lighting. Therefore, the pictures aren't as sharp as I want. Practice, practice, practice. Maybe when Maya is a Senior I will be good enough to take her senior pics...although, I hope it doesn't take 18 year for me to master this camera...lol!

Maya's Baptism

2009-12-13T15:54:00.003-06:00

A thank you goes out to each and everyone of who who were able to take part in this special day. It was truely special, because daddy was able to be there too. We are truely grateful for our wonderful friends an family and cannot thank you enough for all the love and support you provide us everyday.

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God bless ALL of you!

tj, maranda, and maya

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inviation details:

please join us to celebrate

love and new life

as we baptize

Imaya Ruby Armstrong

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sunday, december 13th, 2009

at the 7:45 am mass

nativity catholic church

1825 1th street south

fargo, nd 58103

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reception and brunch to follow

9:00 am -1:00 pm

days inn1507 19th avenue north

fargo, nd 58102

"Imaya made it all the way across the room"

2009-11-17T22:24:00.009-06:00

I picked Imaya up from daycare today and they reported that Imaya went from one end of the living room to the other. I thought, for sure she rolled across. Nope, apparently she grabbed the carpet and pulled herself. Wow, I guess she got her daddy's strength because this girl has absolutely no upper body strength.

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Imaya has transitioned well from at home with mommy to daycare. She has been at daycare now for about a month already. I think I miss it more than she does. She certainly loves to watch all the kids play. She is eating and sleeping well. As long as I bring extra clothes for her spit up, she is o.k. We do have quite the spitter on our hands. Now, I am not talking just a little spit up here and there. I am talking about getting the entire front side of her shirt and most times the pants too. Every morning before I leave work, I am cleaning spit off of myself as well. Didn't you know that the new fashion trend was spit up on clothes? It's hip.

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(I had to include the recent pictures I took of her little legs. I suppose they have to be a bit on the larger side to hold all those muscles...lol)

We love you Coley...

2009-11-07T21:48:00.000-06:00

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We attended cousin Coley's shower November 7th. It was held at Tara's house in Fargo. Lots of family and friends were in attendance. I made baby bootie cups that we filled with chex mix made by great grandma mac and a diaper cake. It was my first attempt at a diaper cake. It wasn't the most proportionate...but Nicole loved it so...mission accomplished. We played many games, ate lots of good food, had many laughs. and made some great memories that will last forever. We are so excited cousin Nicole and Frank are having a baby girl. I hope and pray that they become as close as Nicole and I have. We love you Nicole...you are so very special to us and we are so glad that you are in our lives.

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In the bottom left hand corner, Imaya is pictured in a blue sailor-type sweater. Great grandma Mac actually made that for me when I was a little girl. It was saved for me and worn again by my precious little girl. I can't tell you how much these keepsakes mean to me. I will definitely be keeping stuff her as well...

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...and yes, the party was crashed by the men. Apparently, they were hungry!

A random update

2009-11-02T20:38:00.010-06:00

Here are some random pictures from the month of October. Yeah, I know November is almost over. I am just a little late in updating the blog...
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Here are some random thoughts as well:
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I have tried many times to sit Imaya up and see what happens next. All she does is slump or slide over to the side. So, guess we aren't ready to sit up yet. She does do well in her Bumbo seat though.
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Imaya is rolling over now without a little push from me. On November 1st, she rolled over three times from her back to her stomach while I was trying to change her diaper. I have seen her roll over before, but not this many times in a row. I guess I will have to watch the little peanut at little bit closer than I am used to. NO more lying on the couch!

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She still loves the ABC's. Anytime someone wants a picture of her I just sing the ABC's. It is a given that you will get big smiles from her. In addition to a smile, she usually brings her hand up to her mouth to chomp on. She loves chewing on those fingers. Sometimes she gets them too far down that she gags herself. Silly girl.

Some Bunny says, "Happy Halloween!"

2009-10-31T20:16:00.009-05:00

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Our little precious Imaya was a bunny for Halloween. I found this cute bunny outfit from a lady that makes these cute little costumes. The looped yarn was just too darn cute...I just couldn't resist. I had to talk Daddy into it because he wanted his little girl to be a ladybug. I guess I better find the cutest ladybug outfit for next year.

The morning, Imaya and I spent the day at home preparing for the big evening. Early evening we headed over to see cousin Jack. He was so cute in his monkey outfit. We then headed for the mall for a night of trick or treating. What a great day! The only thing that could have made the day better would have been to share it with daddy...

A good bill of health reported by Dr. Blehm

2009-10-26T20:13:00.003-05:00

Imaya had her first doctors appointment with her new doctor, Dr. Blehm. Dr. Blehm was recommended by Grandma Becky. I have to say that he is a great doctor and we will not be leaving him anytime soon. He reported that Imaya is healthy as can be. Nothing to worry about. Prior to the appointment, Grandma Becky was worried about her little granddaugther. She was concerned that Imaya wasn't gaining enough weight, spitting up too much, and excreting too much urine. We asked Dr. Blehm all of the above questions and he wasn't worried a bit.

Imaya is 24.37 inches long, which falls into the 64th percentile.

Imaya is 13.11 pounds, which falls under the 60th percentile.

What I found interesting is that her head circumference is 15.5 inches. Interestingly, it is in the 13th percentile. I guess she got that gene from me, as I am still wearing children's hat. Though small, I got a lot of brains in there packed like sardines...lol.

Imaya also received 2 shots and another vaccination orally. Did she cry...nope, she screamed after the shots were administered. She was pretty much fussy the rest of the day. I could barely touch her legs when changing her it hurt her so bad. Poor thing. We went over to Nana's afterwords so she could snuggle with Nana to feel better.

Is it normal?

2009-10-16T22:18:00.004-05:00

Is it normal that I took pictures of Imaya being changed by her daddy?

I got an email this week that listed the top 30 questions that a mother asks about her child. These are top questions I have had over the last few months...

Is it normal that my baby has hiccups frequently?
Is it normal that my baby sneezes frequently?
Is it normal that my baby has stinky feet?
Is it normal that my baby spits up a lot after every feeding?
Is it normal that my baby scowls frequently?
Is it normal if my baby doesn't gain a lot of weight one month?
Is it normal that my baby's hands and feet are almost always cold?
Is it normal that my baby will not sleep on her back?
Is it normal that my baby has to be held for a nap?
Is it normal that people think my baby is a boy?

So...is it normal?

16 weeks...wow.

2009-10-16T22:07:00.035-05:00

Imaya is 16 weeks old today. She is getting so big and changing so much:

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o The last three weeks she started drooling and chewing on her fingers and tries to eat anything she can get a hold of. I have a feeling that we will see some teeth soon.

o She definatly knows who her mommy is because she will follow me all around the room, look up to find me when she hears my voice, and moves her arms and hand when I am about to pick her up.

o She will swat and try to grab onto an object that you hold infront of her.

o She definately likes to bed held during her day naps. Only a few times have I been able to put her down in her crib for a long nap (> 15 minutes).

o Imaya sleeps an average of 10 to 12 hours at night, however, she does go to bed very late. This last week she has been falling asleep about 10:00 to 11:00 pm. I would like to contribute this to a before bed ritual that I recently started, but unfortunately I don't think it has anything to do with it.

o We are now up to 5oz
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Boy how life changes. Our little peanut is growing up so fast. Where does the time go. Before I know it she will be eating foods, talking, and walking around. I am not sure I am ready for her to grow up and not want to cuddle with mommy anymore =(

In my daughters eyes...

2009-09-08T23:08:00.008-05:00

I never really felt like a song was written for me except for now. The song in my daughter's eyes by Martina McBride is exactly what I have felt since Imaya was born but have been unable to put it into words. She is my everything..."She was sent to rescue me. I see who I want to be. I realize what life is all about." Up until this point in my life I thought my life was about getting a masters degree, making a lot of money, and material things. Boy was I couldn't have been more wrong. Life is about the people you meet, your family and friends, and most of all...your children. I realize who I want to be...the best mom that I can be. I see my life through her eyes...

Rubber ducky your the one...

2009-09-08T22:19:00.005-05:00

Imaya loves her baths. Tonight while giving her a bath she began kicking for the first time. There wasn't much splashing, due to the low level of water, but I can for see myself getting very wet in the future. And, of course, I had to use this opportunity for another photo session. Good thing digital cameras were invented because I would have spend a fortune on developing film!!

Imaya vs. Nahla

2009-09-08T00:08:00.010-05:00

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What do you think? I have heard that our Imaya has similar features to that of Halle Berry's daughter Nahla. I guess being compared to an offspring of Halle Berry isn't at all bad. I just hope that our Imaya grows up to have that beautiful Halle Berry hair.

Yet another first...

2009-09-07T12:39:00.010-05:00

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This morning Imaya woke me up at about 5:45 am. Unfortunately, I had awoke with a huge pounding headache. I thought, how am I going to get through this with a newborn by myself? I put her in her bouncy chair and after about 20 minutes she had enough of that. I tried to feed her a bottle so she would go back to sleep, but she wasn't having that either. Then, I decided to go downstairs and put her in her swing for awhile. Usually, she stands the swing for about 30 minutes max. I set the swing up by me on the couch and about 30 minutes later she was sound asleep. I couldn't believe it! I was so proud of my little girl...and I am happy to say that my headache was short lived.

Yet another doctors appoinment...

2009-09-04T21:28:00.005-05:00

(a band-aid on each leg, one for each shot)

Imaya had her 2 month doctors visit today. Imaya is growing quite rapidly. Imaya is now 11 lbs 15 1/2 oz and 22 1/2 inches long.

Her weight is currently in the 75th percentile. She jumped from 60th to 75th percentile in one month. She is my little chunky monkey.

Her height is still in the 50th percentile. This doesn't surprise me as me and daddy aren't too tall. I am 5' 4" and daddy is 5' 8", therefore, I don't think being tall is in Imaya's near future...

While we were at the doctor Imaya began gibbering. This was the first time that I have seen her so active and almost responding to me after I would say something. It was our first conversation. I look forward to many, many more.

Unfortunately, this appointment was when Imaya received her shots. The first one went o.k., but the second left her screaming. I guess that one hurt. I felt so bad. One thing that I can't tolerate is my baby crying!!

10 weeks old...wow!

2009-09-04T21:27:00.005-05:00

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Imaya is 10 weeks old. Pretty soon my princess will be in school and I won't know what to do with myself. She is growing so fast. I wish that I could keep her this small and cuddly forever.

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This week Imaya found my hair this week and has learned to grab onto it. Wonderful! Oh, did I mention that her nails grow ridiculously fast. Therefore, if a go longer than a week she scratches the heck out of my neck. Now, in addition to the scratching I am getting my hair pulled..

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Since I have had so many people ask about the pronunciation of Imaya's name I thought I would take a minute to explain. Most of you know me pretty well to know that I do not follow the norm. If everyone is wearing black, I will probably be wearing white. And, of course, with the different spelling of my name you would guess that my baby would have an original name as well. Anyway, back to the pronunciation. Imaya is just like Amaya, instead of with an "i" sound as in igloo. We also call her Maya for short. Therefore, if you are uncomfortable with the pronunciation, Maya is easier. The minute I heard TJ ask me if I like Imaya I knew that it was it. It is such a beautiful, unique name which is perfect for our darling little daughter. Momma loves you Imaya.

Where did the time go...

2009-08-28T20:53:00.012-05:00

I can't believe already today Imaya is 9 weeks old. She is about 11 1/2 pounds already and getting quite heaving for me to carry around everywhere. I think it is time for me to go to the gym and lift weights before she gets any bigger because my weakling arms get tired very easily.

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So far, Imaya sleeps pretty well through the night. Usually sleeping 5 hours at a stretch and then up for a bottle and 2 to 3 more hours. A couple times, once at home in ND and once this week, she slept 8 hours straight. Of course, that was with constant feeding a couple hours before bed time. She has become quite the night owl like me, usually going to bed around 10:30 pm. I like this much, much more than her being a morning lark!! If you know me, you know that I am NOT a morning person at all.

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When we returned from ND, I put Imaya in her crib in her room. Before, she was sleeping in a bassinet beside my bed. So, she has graduated to the big bed in her own room. I am proud of myself because I was so nervous about letting her sleep in a different room. Would I hear her? Would she get stuck between the mattress and the crib? You know, usual mom worries. But I am proud to say that she is doing just great in her crib.

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During a feedings, Imaya usually eats 4 ounces every 2 to 3 hours. Before bed, it is usually 6 ounces. Also, she is beginning to hold her hands near the bottle. A couple times she has been able to hold her own bottle, but it is usually short lived. At the beginning of each feeding, her hands are clenched together in a fist. At the end, when she is satisfied they are open. It is interesting to watch this during feedings.

I really believe that Imaya can now tell who her mommy and daddy are because when she sees or hears us she will light up and grin from ear to ear.

She began drooling and blowing bubbles this week. I always thought the drooling was during the teething period, guess that means that she will be getting teeth early.

I believe that Imaya is now more comfortable with baths. Since at home in ND, she has not cried during a bath like she used to. I believe this contributes to me putting a towel down for her to lay on in the tub and warmer water. The "hot" gauge that we use in the bath did not work for Imaya. The water got cold to fast and the screaming began. Once I realized that she liked the water a bit warmer bath time began to be a much more pleasant and enjoyable time for the both of us.

I also forgot to mention a few weeks ago, that Imaya will stand on her own bearing her own weight when you stand her up. I noticed this before we went to ND as I remember showing everyone how strong she was getting.

Our trip home to ND...

2009-08-27T11:16:00.023-05:00

Imaya is now 6 weeks old and already flying home to ND. I have to say that I was really worried about the flight. I really didn't feel like having a screaming baby on a flight from Springfield to Minneapolis and then Minneapolis to Fargo. I had scheduled her feeding to be exactly about the time that we took off from Springfield. Unfortunately, we were delayed so little peanut was hungry. I started feeding her but didn't want the whole bottle to be gone by the time we took off because I knew the feeding would help her ears. We still had some bottle left and the take of went off with success. She slept the whole flight and we landed with no bottle or pacifier needed. The second flight was a bottle on the way up and nothing on the way down. She did so well. I was so proud of my little angel.

The first night in ND at Grandma and Grandpa Mac's house in Wahpeton, she scooted half way across the crib. When I woke up she had an arm hanging out the side of the crib. I was kind of frightened because there was a little space between the crib and the mattress that she could have wedged herself in. After that night, we had to wedge blankets in the side to protect her. What a little squirt. Already she is moving around! I guess I have to watch her that much closer now.

After the first couple days home I switched her formula from Enfamil Lipil to Parents choice with added starch (generic brand for Enfamil). This formula is for babies who spit up regularly. Imaya has recently begun spitting up more on the new formula than she did with breast milk. The first week she did really well with very little spit up. However, the second week and beyond she was back to the normal spit up routine. At her doctors appointment in the next couple weeks we will visit about possibly changing her formula to a soy-based or lactose free.

Also at this time, I noticed that Imaya stated developing baby achne randomly on her arms and legs as well as millia, which are tiny bumps that appeared all over her face. I hope it doesn't last to long!

After two nights we left Grandma and Grandpa Mac's house in Wahpeton and went to stay with Grandma and Grandpa Elbert in Fargo. I have to say that I especially enjoyed our time in Wahpeton as it was so relaxing sitting out on the deck each day rocking Imaya to sleep while looking out at the golf course.

For sleeping arrangements at Mom's house, she had set up a pack and play for her to sleep in the living room. I was still too nervous to leave her alone sleeping in another room, so I slept in a recliner. To my surprise it was actually pretty comfortable.

The next day, auntie Michelle threw Imaya and I a shower at her house. Imaya got lots and lots of gifts and bonded with many new family and friends. Weston cooked some appetizers and brought them over for us...yummy!

The following night we attended another shower in our honor held in Kindred hosted by Joan Halland and Barb Spiekermeier. Again, Imaya received too many gifts and enjoyed being. I have a feeling that when we go home she is going to have a difficult time sleeping without someone holding her. If you can spoil a newborn, she is definitely being spoiled!

We also attended a shower for cousin Isabel and Everett. I joked that us three girls once were the life of the party. From cigarettes and beer to baby bottles. We might be mama's now, but we still got it! I love you girls!

We were able to enjoy 4 days at Cormorant Lake with Grandma and Grandpa Elbert. Unfortunately, the weather was cold most of the time. Saturday was the nicest and best day. All Imaya's cousins, Jackson, Gus, and Lillian, were able to come in addition her aunts and uncles, Chad, Shannon, Jeremy, and Donna, were able to spend some time with us at the lake as well. While we were home for the two weeks we went through 2 3/4 cans of formula, 180 wipes, and 100 diapers. I believe she gained close to 2 lbs as well. She left wearing newborn clothes and outgrew them the first week being home. So, now she is in 0-3 months, but I have a feeling that this size will be very short lived!

Imaya's awake time during the day has increased. Some days, she has been up four hours at a time. I am not sure if this is due to new surrounding or getting older, however, this time awake sure does wear me out! She definitely keeps me busy. During her awake times, I often put her in her bouncy chair and play music, sing songs, or just sit and talk away with me. Daddy likes to play music on his laptop before her night time bottle. Imaya isn't yet too fond of toys, but she does enjoy trying to grab onto the rings in her bouncy chair. She will find them and grip them so tight that her knuckles turn white. She is a strong one!

Since Imaya is a tummy sleeper she has been learning to push herself up quite early. I think at two weeks she was already trying to hold her head up. Therefore, now she is able to fully push herself up and have a little bit more control of her head. I used call her "bobble head" because she tried to hard to push herself up but her head was just too big for her arms to hold and her head would bobble uncontrollably everywhere. People can't believe how steady she is already holding her head up. She is going to be strong, just like her daddy.

Four times in ND, Imaya was on her stomach and rolled over to her back. The first time was a fluke, however. We were at grandma McDougall's and Imaya was on her stomach and I think her arm just gave out and she rolled over. Then, about a week later we were at Grandma and Grandpa Mac's house and she rolled over twice. "That's it", Grandpa Mac stated, "we are counting it." We chuckled because Nana (Great Grandma Ethel) said that the first one didn't count or that she wouldn't say that she rolled over. Imaya wanted to prove her wrong and she did!

This time at home, not only gave many friends and family time with Imaya. It also gave her the opportunity to bond with other adults other than her dad and I. In addition, to giving me a welcomed break from the hard work of practically being a single parent due to TJ's demanding schedule. Thank you everyone for everything. We miss you already and hope to see you soon.

Smile...

2009-08-06T11:12:00.001-05:00

Today, Imaya smiled for the first time. I have been patiently waiting for this moment and it finally arrived! It was so exciting to witness this event..my heart filled with joy. Unfortunately, daddy was at work and we are leaving soon for ND. Therefore, I don't think daddy will get to see it until we return =( Now, I will be patiently waiting to hear her first giggle. I have heard her quite a few times in her sleep, but never awake. Does she dream? If so, I wonder what she could possibly be giggling about?

Growth spurts and some firsts...

2009-08-05T13:26:00.008-05:00

I thought yesterday would never end. Imaya seemed to be feeding every hour. Then when she got to sleep she would spit up waking herself up. I think she was up from 5pm to 12am with just a few naps here and there. I was absolutely exhausted and just irritable. I was so happy to see TJ come home and take her for awhile. What I realized today is that she was going through a growth spurt. All I needed to do was fed her more! Instead of eating 2 oz every two hours, she is now eating 3 oz. Now with her tummy full, she is sleeping again. Hallelujah!

This week was filled with a bunch of firsts. Imaya had her first smile while she was awake on August 6th. I was at El Jimador's restaurant waiting for a friend and she just looked up and me and smiled. My heart just melted. Also, Imaya is began to coo in addition to grunting quite a bit more than usual. She will make these sounds and then stop...almost like she is thinking, "was that me?" I can't wait for more firsts in the future...

5 weeks old

2009-08-02T23:16:00.010-05:00

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Well, we are unfortunately no longer breast feeding. Imaya began to be reluctant to take my breast after she had been given the bottle quite a bit over this last week. Therefore, I decided that the fighting with her to try and breast feed had ended. I wish someone would have told me how painful it is after you quit. Nothing can describe how painful it was! The last couple of days, she has spit up after almost every feeding. Therefore, I am experimenting with different positions and formulas.

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Imaya's neck muscles are developing as she pushes up off of your chest when burping and pulls her head up and turns it from side to side for a short while. Also, last week she began tracking things with her eyes. If you put a toy in front of her face and move it from side to side her eyes will follow it. I am patiently waiting for that smile when she is awake. Have gotten some during her sleep...but that is probably gas!

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Only a couple days away until Imaya and I head to ND. We are so excited and I know our friends and family are as equally excited. Looks like we will be having a shower on Aug 11th with my father's side of the family and Aug 12th on my mother's side. Hope to see you all there. See you soon!

The best of Imaya...

2009-07-31T23:32:00.009-05:00

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Imaya's one month checkup

2009-07-28T05:31:00.000-05:00

On July 28th, Mommy, Daddy and Imaya went to go see Dr. Cook for Imaya's one month appointment. Daddy had CQ the night before so he was able to go with. We were so excited to spend the day with daddy! Imaya weighed 9 lbs. She is in the 50th percentile, meaning that 50 percent of babies the same age and gender as your baby weigh within the same range.

Imaya is now 19 inches long, which is the 60th percentile.

It really doesn't matter what percentile Imaya falls into. What doctors are generally looking for on a growth chart is that baby stay relatively consistent in their growth pattern. Imaya was in the 50th percentile for height and weight when she was born. Therefore, her growth is normal at this point. According to her birth weight and height, Imaya should gain 9 1/2 lbs the first year and grow 6 1/4 inches. We are so happy that Imaya is doing so well. We are so blessed to have a healthy, beautiful baby girl!

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In addition to her scheduled checkup, Imaya received her 2nd HBV (Hepatis B) shot. We aren't sure if it bothered her or not, because she was already crying before the shot was administered. I had to interrupt her feeding for the checkup, therefore, she was not a happy camper! Hepatis B protects against the hepatitis B virus, which attacks the liver. There are three doses: at birth, between 1 and 2 months, and between 6 and 18 months.

Happy one month birthday Imaya

2009-07-26T06:36:00.021-05:00

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This month has brought about many changes. Imaya is now keeping her gaze and his following an objects with her eyes. She feeds regularly and often keeping me from doing many of the tasks around the house that need to get done. She sometimes falls asleep before she finishes eating, therefore, she is up an hour later for the rest of her feeding. After feeding, I bring her to my chest and burp her. Most of the time she doesn't burp. Instead, she spits up me. Then, after is a deep sleep I transfer her to the crib on her belly for her nap until the next feeding. While she sleeps I often see many smiles and last week started hearing her giggling. When she begins to wake up from her nap she grunts and begins her 2-5 minutes stretching routine. Her stretches are the cutest thing I have ever seen!
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We are still breastfeeding, however, Imaya does get a bottle of formula or pumped milk 3-5 times a week. We do this at night, so dad can feed her. Usually, if we do this she eats about 4 to 5 oz. When she does this, she sleeps 4 to 5 hours during the night. The first couple of nights, I woke up in a complete panic that something was wrong with her because she had not woke up. Now, I enjoy that sleep!

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We were unable to take our pictures with Collins Photography this week due to the photographer having difficulties post labor. We will be taking them the third or fourth week in August. Until then, I have purchased a Canon Rebel XSI to get started with my own photography. Thank you mom and dad for the birthday gift of a camera as that is what I used my money for. I already purchased three "how to" books. I can't wait to get started taking pictures of my beautiful subject! So far, I have just been messing around with the pictures I have already taken.

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Mommy update:

As for me, I am still experiencing some pain and tenderness in the peri area due to tearing really bad during labor. Imaya was so excited to meet her mommy and daddy that she did not wait for the Doctor to perform a episiotomy. In addition, I have been experiencing back pain in the upper portion of my back/shoulders. I believe this is due to holding Imaya when breastfeeding and etc. I am unable to sleep on my back as a result, which is quite hard for me since I am a back sleeper! I hope that both will subside with time=)

After a bath...

2009-07-21T16:32:00.000-05:00

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Imaya was just chilling out after her bath. I figured it was a photo opportunity as she was not screaming like she usually is after a bath. I love that she has more facial expressions as she gets older...

Imaya spends a day with the Soldiers

2009-07-20T19:11:00.008-05:00

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Imaya went with me this weekend to drill. I was pretty skeptical as to how it would all work out with the noise, breast feeding, and etc. However, the weekend ended up going very well with the exception of me not getting much sleep at all. On Saturday, she slept most of the day while I worked on my S-3 duties and Sunday afternoon we had our family day activities at Happy Hollow. There were so many new babies there...I want to say that there were 5 under 4 weeks old. Imaya definitely had the most hair!! Pictured with Imaya is my battle buddy Jess Cowman. Unfortunately, her and her husband are moving to Fort Stewart, Georgia for his next assignment. We will miss them lots, but wish them the best of luck in their future endeavors.

ZZZZZ.....

2009-07-20T18:32:00.012-05:00

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I don't know what it is about sleeping babies...but I love photographing them. When Imaya is sleeping I find myself getting out the camera quite often. Since her birth, I have found an interest in photography and hope to start learning how to take professional pictures. I was inspired by my college buddy Michelle Warren. She started learning, I believe, after the birth of her first daughter as well. She was now blessed with a son and continues to take great photos. Take a look below.

Tomorrow, we go take our professional pictures...not looking forward to the price tag on those! Another reason why I am interested in taking my own photos. We had my belly pictures taken at the same place, Collins Photography. So, stay tuned for the reveal of our pictures!

3 weeks old

2009-07-16T20:28:00.010-05:00

Almost a whole three weeks has passed by. It took me almost two weeks and my mother visiting to adjust to the feedings and get some good sleep. This week, I feel like a brand new woman. I apologize for the lack of communication these last few weeks. I promise that the pictures will be more frequent now as Imaya is napping on her own.

Imaya has been to the doctor every week since her birth due to losing body weight. She was born at 7 lbs 14 oz. When we left the hospital she was 7 lbs 9 oz, which is normal for a baby to lose weight the first couple days. Then, a week later she was 7 lbs 6 oz. The next week, she was back up to 7 lbs 9 oz. She should have been gaining about an once a day at this point. Needless to say, I was getting concerned. Was she getting enough breast milk? Should I supplement with bottles? Her Dr. recommended I supplement and my doctor gave me a medication to help. However, I held off on both and just tried to eat better. It worked!! Today, Imaya was 8 lbs 4 oz. She gained 8 oz this week. I was so elated to find out that all is well and that we are on schedule with the feedings.

The next hurdle that we overcame over these few weeks was napping/sleeping. Imaya did so well sleeping in the hospital...she woke up every 2 to 3 hours during the day to eat and actually slept 5 hours the second night. However, when we went home it was a totally different Imaya. Only one word explained the new Imaya...colicky. The first week, she was most intense during the night. She would not sleep in her crib and was up almost all night. The second week I figured out that she would sleep on belly on my chest at night. Therefore, her most intense crying spells now were durin the day. After trying a vibrating chair, swing, bassinet, and crib I realized that she just doesn't like to sleep on her back. So, as long as I can sneak her in her bassinet on her tummy, she is good. If I only would have known this earlier. Now, I know that all the baby books DO NOT recommend this...but I guarantee you that when you and I were young we probably slept on our stomach because that is what the doctor recommended back then. I am, however, very cautious and check her religiously as a result of going against advice. I sit here now writing in peace and quiet with my little angel right beside me sleeping...silence...something I took for granted.

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Some of Imaya's favorite things:

hanging out with dad before bed

riding in the car

getting her hair washed/head rubbed

stretching for a good 2-3 minutes after a nap

going #1 and #2 on mom and dad

being held, carressed, and carried

Happy Birthday to me!

2009-07-05T21:18:00.010-05:00

Today we headed to Springfield for my birthday. Luckily, TJ had CQ (change of quarters) the night before. Since TJ was up all night performing the duties of CQ, he got the next day off. CQ shifts rotate throughout the company. The CQ shift runs after normal duty hours when the drill sergeant or other noncommissioned officer. Mainly, they ensure that all Soldiers are accounted for and the CQ shifts of the basic training Soldiers perform their assigned nightly duties.

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For my birthday, TJ bought me a mother's ring. It has two stones: Alexandrite for Imaya and Ruby for me. I am so excited to go pick it up. But even better than the ring was spending the day with Imaya and TJ. Those moments are truly cherished moments that I will never forget!
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I have to tell a little story about the picture of Imaya in her car seat. I swear if she knew how to smile, she would be grinning from ear to ear in this picture! The story goes...daddy took Imaya out to the car to change her while I made a pit stop in the bathroom. When I got to the car, TJ informed me that I only had wipes that needed to be wet in the car. So, I had to run back into the mall and wet the wipe. I returned and TJ began cleaning Imaya...when she decided to pee all over. So, here I am holding our naked baby in the air, while daddy dumped the pee drenched changing pad on the ground. I had tears in my eyes it was so comical.

We are proud to announce...

2009-06-26T18:53:00.014-05:00

Imaya Ruby Armstrong

Our precious angel was born at 5:50 pm on June 26th, 2009 at Phelps County Regional Medical Center in Rolla, MO. She was a healthy 7 lbs, 14 oz and 19.5 inches long.

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Twinkle twinkle tiny light,

little eyes that shine so bright.

A precious baby from heaven above,

fill our hearts with so much love.

The last of the baby bumps...

2009-06-23T19:44:00.006-05:00

39 Weeks

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I am getting bigger and bigger everyday. Little peanut weighs over 7lbs now and is about 20 inches long. I am ready any day now to meet our little peanut. The biggest change that I have noticed this week is the increased swelling in my feet. Ouch..I wore boots the day of this picture. It will be the last time I do that. Flip flops will be the style of choice from here on out. At our appointment today, we scheduled an induction on June 26th. I better get my butt in gear to get all the last minute items we need! Maternity leave starts tomorrow...yeah =)

TJ graduates his first cycle...what an achievement!

2009-06-19T19:59:00.009-05:00

TJ graduated his first cycle of Soldiers on June 18th, 2009. TJ's mother and brother were able to attend and watch him proudly as TJ reached this accomplishment. During this cycle, TJ said one of his Soldiers asked him what his biggest accomplishment so far in his career was. He responded with telling his Soldiers that watching them graduate would be that moment for him. Peanut and I were so proud to be a part of this day and share it with him and his family. The break between this cycle of Soldiers and the next is extremely short. TJ will ship his Soldiers off on June 19th and will begin day 1 with another group of recruits on June 29th. The video posted above is TJ calling cadence for his Delta Dawgs, 3rd Platoon, as they walked across the stage. "Army, Army, Army...I love the Army." The video posted below is a video that was played at the graduation. Does this motivate you to join?

Ruber ducky your the one...

2009-06-19T19:27:00.005-05:00

I finished the bathroom in the nursery. I received so many ducky stuff that I thought it would only be appropriate to decorate the bathroom with ducks. The duck toilet seat cover and rug were given to me by a co-worker. Thank you Cynthia...it looks so cute with the rest of the decor. I had to hang the little robe that we got from Tracy, another co-worker, from my shower. This is just the cutest thing I have ever seen. Once we moved in, we immediately took the doors off the bathrooms. As you can see, they are pretty small and with a door in the way it was ridiculous. Now I am able to actually get my big belly into the bathroom. I am almost done with the nursery and will post pictures soon.

More gifts...

2009-06-10T19:32:00.005-05:00

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Great Grandma McDougall made a blanket for our little peanut. When I sit in the rocker a night and read I drape this blanket across my chest to keep warm. Thank you Nana Mac. Also, Grandma and Grandpa Elbert bought us a teddy bear. We love him..he is just too cute. I can't wait to show everyone all of these items in the nursery. I am almost finished. I have a few more projects and then will be posting pictures. Stay tuned...

37 weeks...full term

2009-06-10T19:00:00.007-05:00

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I gained only a pound this week which is due to all the nausea that I experienced. So far, this week was the worst that I have had. I have not been able to eat very much, due to getting sick afterwards. Thus far I have gained 24 pounds. Baby is about 6.5 lbs now. My sister was 6 lbs when she was born, however, I was 8. We are not sure how big/small TJ was...lets hope we have a smaller baby! I had my weekly appointment today. My cervix is still closed, therefore, no inducing anytime soon. Our next appointment is next Tuesday. We hope there is some activity in the cervix so we can induce as planned on the 19th. If not, we will be patiently waiting with TJ's mom and brother here for the arrival of baby Armstrong. Not feeling any contractions at this time. Baby continues to move quite a bit. I posted a quick movement video for you to see.

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This weeks goal is to find a mommy wagon to purchase. Possible cars: Dodge Charger, Nissan Altima, and Chrysler 300. It looks like I will be trading in my Celica as there has not been much interest =( Not what I had intended, but I hope to get a good deal for it. No more manual, 2 door cars for this girl. I guess it had to happen sooner or later...

24 days to go and our closet is filling up...

2009-06-04T23:16:00.015-05:00

I can't believe how much stuff we have gotten.

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The clothes are from Cynthia at work. Her husband is currently deployed overseas and she recently attended a family support event. At this event they were giving away FREE, brand new clothes of varying sizes. While she was there she thought of us and picked up all the clothes you see pictured. What a great gal! Our closet is growing daily as a result of the wonderful gifts and a shopaholic mom!! Hopefully we have a girl so we can put our little one in all these adorable clothes. I have to admit that I have also bought more girl clothes than boy...as I have a gut feeling that it is a girl. If our peanut ends up being a boy, I know some very special ladies who are also having babies.

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The toys are from our next door neighbor. Their little boy Dominick loved these toys, so she thought to buy them for us. Sadie and Jeff bought us the Boppy and cover from our Target registry. I can't wait to use it for breastfeeding! Lastly, the lamb is from grandma and grandpa Elbert. They brought it with they brought it with them when they visited over Memorial weekend. It is so soft. I can just see our peanut relaxing in the bobby on this comfy floor pad.

I'd like to say, though I'm not here yet

thank you for the all gifts I'll get

And thank you from my parents, too

for all the gifts in pink and blue

My closet was empty, my belongings were few

but that's all changed now, thanks to you!

...love peanut

36 weeks and positive to group B...

2009-06-03T23:52:00.002-05:00

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Our peanut is now 6 pounds. I can definitely feel the extra weight on my body. Peanut is pushing more and more on my bladder so I am constantly back and forth to the bathroom. The head is already in the down position as I feel frequent kicks to the ribs. I feel peanuts foot sticking out of the right side of my belly quite often as there isn't too much room in my belly for the little one to move around anymore. I have experienced much trouble trying to eat a full sized meal and the heart burn continues...yuck!!

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Our doctors appointments continue every two weeks. This week we found out that I am positive to group B. The group B streptococcus (GBS) bacteria is usually harmless in healthy adults, but it can cause a relatively rare but very serious infection in newborns. Between 10 and 30 percent of pregnant women carry GBS bacteria in the vagina or rectal area, where they may pass it to their babies during labor or birth. I will be receiving an antibiotic treatment during labor as a result of my positive results. This will greatly reduce the risks associated with GBS. Without this medication, the consequences to peanut can be very serious. GBS disease can cause sepsis (an infection in the blood), pneumonia, and meningitis.

34 weeks...

2009-05-17T23:12:00.008-05:00

I was happy to find out that we are now out of the clear for a premature baby as I have been quite nervous about preterm labor. Thus, I am thankful to find out that babies born after 34 weeks who have no other health problems generally do o.k. They may, however, need a short stay in a neonatal unit but will do as well as full-term babies in the long run.

I have been lucky thus far to have not developed any stretch marks. I assumed since I have gotten so big, so fast these last few weeks that I would begin to see them. Fortunately, I don't see any so far...yeah!

Baby Armstrong can now ride in the car.

2009-05-17T22:14:00.009-05:00

My battle buddy Kristen Poe, who I wrote about earlier in this blog, purchased a car seat and a stroller for our little peanut. I was so excited to receive this gift, that I IMMEDIATELY ripped opened the boxes and started to put everything together. I think I started this project about 9:30 pm one night after I had gotten hom from school. TJ asked, "Are you going to put that together tonight." I couldn't believe he even had to ask that question. I had two huge boxes sitting in front of me...it was like Christmas...of course I was going to put them together. I can't wait to go on walks with our little peanut. I'm sure they will become part of our daily routine.

Thank you so much for this generous gift and thinking about us.

Kristen Poe will soon be returning from her deployment overseas. We hope and pray for her safe return and are excited to see her.

God Speed Poe!

Our first baby shower.

2009-05-13T14:17:00.023-05:00

The ladies at work threw me my first shower. TJ was unfortunately unable to attend due to his crazy schedule. He was at the confidence course that day with his platoon. Guys aren't really into the shower thing anyway. As you can see, we received many, many gifts. Peanut's closet was pretty empty prior to the shower, but that has all changed now. Thank you so much to the ladies and gentleman of the DFAS office. I am truly grateful for all of your support and generosity throughout my pregnancy. Words cannot express my gratitude...

My little baby is coming

The day is drawing near.

And so I spend my time dreaming

of my sweet baby dear.

I dream of little hands,

precious feet and angel eyes,

I dream of reading stories,

playing games and singing lullabies.

And while I ponder

such sweet and happy days,

My thoughts are turned to those

who have helped me along the way.

Nine months is quite a long wait
And it hasn't always been fun.

But thanks to sweet friends like you,

I am almost done!

Happy Mother's Day...

2009-05-10T13:33:00.016-05:00

First off, I hope all you Mother's had a fabulous Mother's Day!

Mother...we all have one. Life starts in her womb. That miracle of life only occurs to a woman which nobody can take away. A title that spells the meaning of womanhood. A role that entails more than just bearing a child but raising a being to be part of this humanity. Attached to it , is not just joy, not just fulfillment but responsibilities. And for a day in 365 days , we have one chance to honor her. I love you mom!

I am 33 weeks today. Peanut is still moving quite frequently. At the birthing class, I was informed that I should be monitoring baby kicks for any changes. So far no changes...which tell us little Armstrong is doing just fine. It is becoming quite difficult to find comfortable positions to sleep, which makes sleeping soundly a challenge. Other than being tired, exhausted and the frequent heartburn, I really feel pretty good. I know that it could be so much worse from talking to other mothers...

This week we were surprised by the news that my cousin, Nicole and her husband Frank, are expecting. Congratulations! I am so excited to be going through this experience together. Unfortunately, she has been suffering through morning sickness for most of her pregnancy thus far. I didn't have much advice for her in this area, as peanut has been pretty good to mommy. I didn't get sick too often. I did, however, have my bad days. Fortunately, the good days definitely outnumbered the bad ones. I was able to send Nicole all of my baby books. I went a little overboard in the book buying department at the beginning of my pregnancy. With a full-time job and going to school full-time the books only collected dust. I was, however, able to enjoy a few books. I hope she is able to get more use out of them then I did.

Maranda's recommendations:

1. Belly laughs by Jenny McCarthy

2. Baby Bargains by Denise Fields

3. What to Expect When Your Expecting by by Heidi Murkoff and Sharon Mazel

The best informative website: baby center.com

32 weeks and counting...

2009-05-04T12:51:00.006-05:00

Baby Armstrong now weights about 3.75 pounds and is about 16.7 inches long. Little peanut is taking up a lot of space in my belly. As a result, my uterus is pushing up near my diaphragm and crowding my stomach. The consequences from this...heartburn. Tums has become one of my best friends. I was pleasantly surprised how much better they taste these days.

This Saturday, May 9th, I also attended a birthing class at Phelps County hospital where I will be delivering. Unfortunately, TJ was unable to attend due to his crazy schedule. Being a first time mom I was overwhelmed with questions, fears, and didn't know what to expect. This class was able to to help calm my nerves and answered all of my questions. The class covered breastfeeding, pain management, vaginal birth, and cesarean birth. We also were taken on a tour of the maternity ward. Thank you ladies of Phelps County for making us feel comfortable. It was a great learning experience. I think all mothers should attend this class before delivery...

The names have been chosen...

2009-04-30T11:37:00.006-05:00

We have chosen the names, however, we are still throwing around the idea of Tyler John Armstrong II also. Both of the middle names are named after someone on TJ's side of the family. Ruby is TJ's grandmother and Robert is his brother. I am not yet sure if they know that our little one may be named after them. It took us forever to decide on a boy name. Even now we are still not 100% sure. I have a feeling it is a girl, so I told TJ we won't have to worry about a boy name! However, TJ thinks it is a boy. If we only knew...we have another appointment tomorrow, so maybe we will find out...stay posted!

31 weeks...63 days to go...

2009-04-26T18:14:00.006-05:00

Baby Armstrong is about 3 and 1/2 pounds this week. Our little one is now growing so fast...and so is mom! I have noticed some changes this week. I have began feeling braxton hicks contractions , which are random contractions that last about 30 seconds. Also, I have begun to have a lot of heart burn after meals. I will try to eat smaller, more frequent meals. Lastly, I feel like I have to go to the bathroom all the time from baby putting pressure on my bladder. For the most part, I feel fine. Some days are better than others. Only 63 days to go...

Our house...is a very, very fine house. Part 1

2009-04-26T12:21:00.030-05:00

As all of you live so far away I decided to give you a little tour of our home here in Waynesville, MO. Part 1 of the tour will take you through our downstairs living area.

Waynesville/St. Robert, Missouri is the home of Ft. Leonard Wood military base which is currently expanding the number of soldiers on site. Waynesville is in Pulaski County, Missouri which was recently named number 3 in the list of the top 10 military metro areas for quality of life. Hunter's Point Townhomes are located outside of Waynesville, MO about 5 minutes away from the Fort Leonard Wood west gate. Townhouse living provides privacy with no neighbors above or below. This single family garden level condo is located in is a safe, fairly quite neighborhood that is free from heavy traffic. It was built in 2006 and features a roomy living area, 2 bed rooms, 2 1/2 bathrooms, kitchen with pantry, laundry room, and carport.

As you enter, you will walk into the living room. It is a spacious area that features hard wood floors.

As you continue on, you will notice the 1/2 bathroom located in the living room area.

Finally, we end at the kitchen. The kitchen is a very large area that features a pantry and white appliances: dishwasher, stove, microwave, and refrigerator.

This is a rental, therefore, we can't really do much of anything to the walls. I have tried to put our personal touches on it to create "our" home. I am going to get creative and try to put some fabric on the walls in the nursery to give it some liveliness. Stay tuned for part 2 to see the upstairs and how the nursery turns out...

SSG Poe is doing great things in Iraq.

2009-04-18T22:54:00.012-05:00

The above video is about my battle buddy SSG Kristen Poe. She handed out over 200 school bags and supplies to children at the UR Primary School, which is located in the southern Iraqi city of Nairiyah. SSG Poe is doing great things in Iraq and I am proud to say that she is my battle.

I met SSG Poe during my 6 month tour in Qatar last year and she has become a dear friend of mine. After she returned from Qatar and PCD's to Fort Hood, TX she was sent back to the "box." SSG Poe is currently in Iraq assigned to the 4th Special Troops Battalion, 4th Brigade Combat Team, 1st Cavalry Division "Long Knives." SSG Poe military occupational specialty (MOS) is Intelligence Analyst. Recently, she made the selection board to be promoted to Sergeant First Class (SFC). Hopefully, soon she will get picked up and be promoted to SFC. She will then outrank both TJ and I...Congratulations battle!

Her picture can also be found in the March 2009 edition of Soldiers magazine on page 47. The magazine is not yet posted on the website but can be found here at a later time and date: http://www.army.mil/soldiers/archives/

Stay safe and God's speed...We miss you and love you

TJ, Maranda, and peanut

Our crib has arrived...

2009-04-16T12:25:00.013-05:00

Thanks to grandma Vonda our peanut will have a place to sleep at night. She purchased our Graco Sarah Convertible Crib. Peanut will be able to enjoy for this many, many years as it converts to a daybed and then to a twin bed. The crib is beautiful and we love it. Thank you grandma Vonda!! On its way to are some additional items purchased for the nursery: futon from West Elm and glider from target. We can't wait to get all these items and start putting our nursery together!

Items to purchase on last week's to do list: diapers, pacifiers, thank you cards, and baby care kit. As you can see I didn't get all the items on my list! I also purchased baby leggings, although TJ is not too fond of them, and beanies. The beanies are the cutest things I have ever seen. They have little holes in them so if peanut is a girl we can add a flower to them.

I am not packing my bag yet, but I have started making a list of items to bring to the hospital. Besides a change of clothes and a toothbrush, some items I will include: outfit for TJ (as he will probably get a call at work), snacks for energy, gum, slippers, favorite pillow, peanuts' blanket, reading material, a nursing nightie, nursing bra, a going home outfit for your peanut, camera, camcorder, and fresh batteries.

The pick-up...

2009-04-16T10:49:00.015-05:00

"cattle truck"

TJ started his first basic training cycle on April 13, 2009. He is attached to D company/148th Infantry Battalion. His company had pick-ups on Monday, Tuesday, Wednesday, and Thursday. What does this mean do you ask? The pick-up takes place after the reception process, where soldiers fill out all their paperwork and all medical tests are completed. If you have ever been to basic training, you will ALWAYS remember pick-up day. A cattle truck picks the soldiers up from the reception area and brings them to the basic training living area. When I say you get into a cattle truck, I don't mean that you casually get in and get a ride. They call it a cattle truck for only one reason, you are packed in there like cattle with your duffle bag strapped to the front of your body. You couldn't fit one more soldier in there it is so tight! A drill sergeant on board instructed us to look straight forward and keep quite. The ride was quite and peaceful, however, I felt nervous, scared and anxious...anything but a feeling peace. We arrived to our destination and I could hear the doors open and the light shine in. Nobody moved. Then, the yelling began and you knew who was in charge.

"Get off my bus."

"Go over there, line up your bags and get in alphabetical order...move, move, move."

They will give you some ridiculous time period, like 2 minutes, which is like 30 seconds drill sergeant time. It is pretty impossible for 200 knuckle-heads to do this.

"Get down and beat your face." (we got down into the push up position.)

"Down"

"Up"

"Teamwork is the key"

"Down" we repeated "teamwork is the key"

"Up" we repeated "teamwork is the key"

The sweat dripped off our face and began puddling onto the ground. We repeated this process until our arms were no longer able to hold our body up. Then, we were given a chance to redeem ourselves and perform the task as requested. We failed. The process continued. The next few hours was a continuous succession of push-ups, sit-ups, and over the head arm claps in between a greeting sessions, training modules, chow, and more. That night, despite my physical fatigue, I remember lying in my bunk, thoughts rushing through my head, "What did I get myself into?" It was the first time in my life that I felt alone and helpless. I couldn't run to mommy and daddy anymore! Mental toughness is 99% of surviving basic training. The purpose of basic training is to turn you from a civilian to a soldier. For the next nine weeks I was broken down, and built back up.

7 months...wow...crazy how time flies by.

2009-04-12T00:26:00.022-05:00

Today, I am 29 weeks pregnant. Baby Armstrong is about 2 and 1/2 pounds and is about 15 inches long. I have increased my calcium intake through my milk, yogurt, and orange juice intake as baby will now need this for his/her bones. The books say that constipation and heartburn may occur, however, I have yet to welcome these friends. Knock on wood, baby Armstrong is treating mommy very well. The only thing that I can complain about is that I sleep quite a bit. I never can seem to get enough sleep!

Wow! It seems like just yesterday we found out we were having a baby. The time has flown by. I guess we better get shopping. So far, we haven't purchased really anything yet. The only additional items that are in my closet consist of Christmas gifts. The blanket my Mom and Dave gave us. I absolutely love the colors. I am debating on using the blanket as the color inspiration for the nursery. Also, we received some books and toys. My cousin Kelley and her family sent the Tiger blanket and teething ring a couple months ago. We are so spoiled! The last item pictured is the one that will be most cherished. We received that from Auntie Linda and Dale. We all miss him so much! He was a great man who lived life to the absolute fullest. Most of all, he was there for his family and would do anything for them. He included each and everyone of us in everything he could. He had a heart of gold and I will pass my memories to little Armstrong. He/she will know how excited uncle snake was for him/her to arrive.

Things to do this month: Buy diapers, wipes, nail clippers, thermometer, a bulb syringe, pacifiers, baby-friendly laundry detergent, thank you cards, and stamps.

We also registered at Target today. There will be a shower in ND sometime after the baby is born. We will have more information about dates after a month or so. TJ does not yet know when his cycle break will be. Little peanut is coming right between is basic training cycles. So, hopefully, he will be able to get some time off to travel back to ND. If not, it will just be me and peanut. We are also planning on having the Baptism at Nativity in Fargo, ND. More information on that later as well.

Good-bye 2 door cars...hello mommy wagon!

2009-04-12T00:13:00.008-05:00

It is time to get rid of my fun 5 speed, 2 door sports car and get something that is a little bit easier getting to the backseat to take out little peanut. This will be my first 4 door car and I am sure it will be quite different for me. I am not yet sure what I will be purchasing. So far I have been looking at the Chyrsler 300, Dodge Charger, and an Audi's for my perfect mommy car. Of course, I will be making some changes to my mommy wagon...the addition of new shiny rims. After that, I should be the coolest mommy on the block.

TJ receives AAM...

2009-03-30T16:50:00.004-05:00

On Friday, March 27th I attended a going away celebration for 5 Soldiers of the 3rd Chemical Brigade. Of those 5, TJ was recognized with an Army Achievement Medal for his contributions to the S-3 staff operations. The Army Achievement Medal is awarded to any member of the armed forces of the United States, or to any member of the armed forces of a friendly foreign nation, who while serving in any capacity with the Army in a non-combat area on or after 1 August 1981, distinguished himself by meritorious service or achievement of a lesser degree than required for award of the Army Commendation Medal. During this last year, "SSG Armstrong meticulously planned, coordinated and executed the 3rd Chemical Brigade Semi-Annual Training Brief (SATB). He executed the brigade operation order, synchronized six subordinate Battalion SATB's, the Battalion to Brigade STAB, the Brigade Commander to Commandant SATB and the final SATB to the Commanding General. He was instrumental in collecting the briefs from all the subordinate Battalions and building briefing books for each phase of the operation." After receiving the award, TJ thanked his fellow Soldiers for mentoring him throughout his time with 3rd Chemical Brigade. He added that he is excited and honored to be a drill sergeant and that he hopes to many great things. We all know he will do a great job. TJ starts his first cycle of basic training at the middle of April. He is eagerly excited to start.

Fargo Flood of 2009...

2009-03-30T16:49:00.003-05:00

God bless all the flood fighters out there!

Instead of evacuating...they stayed to fight! This is what North Dakota is all about. I was born and raised in ND. I am so proud to say that this is where I am from. I feel bad because I cannot be there to help my Fargo friends and family. I miss you, love you, and God Speed.

This video is by leehoedl. He has made many great documentation videos. Check them out at http://www.youtube.com/user/leehoedl.

Myths, Traditions, and Folklore...

2009-03-30T14:34:00.010-05:00

First of all, how is gender determined? Baby Armstrong's gender is determined by the father, TJ. If TJ provides an X chromosome, the baby will be female, and if he supplies a Y chromosome, the baby will be male. I can only provide only an X chromosome. Studies show that there is nearly an equal number of sperm containing X chromosomes as containing Y chromosomes so we have an equal chance of having a boy or a girl.

Are we having a boy or a girl? Predicting the baby's gender is an area filled with myths, traditions, and folklore, as well as science. Here is our results to the tradition and science.

How you carry the baby. Low is a boy. High is a girl.
This predicted Girl

Drano test. I did this at about 15 weeks. The first mornings urine is mixed with crystallized Drano. If it turns a brownish color it is a boy. No color change means it is a girl.
This predicted Girl

Mayan method. The ancient Mayans believed that you could tell a baby's sex by comparing the mother's age at conception with the year of conception. If both numbers are even or both are odd, you'll have be a girl. If one number is even and the other is odd, the baby is a boy.
28/2008
This predicted Girl

Cravings. Simply, more cravings for sweet food mean you are having a girl. Sour cravings indicate a little boy is coming.
This predicted Girl

Pendent test. Suspending a gold ring from a string over a pregnant woman's belly can predict the sex depending on the way it swings -- back and forth for a boy, in a circular motion for a girl.
This predicted Girl

Activity of the baby. It is said that an unborn baby who is very active, kicks, and moves a great deal is more likely to be a girl than a boy.
This predicted Girl

Chinese Lunar Calendar. The sex of the baby is determined by my 'lunar age' (age plus nine months) at conception and the month of conception.
This predicted Boy

We can't say for sure...but it looks like a girl. We are so anxious to find out. We are hoping we can get in soon and get another ultrasound...not that ultrasounds are 100%. We just want to know pink or blue?

Sorry

2009-03-25T10:02:00.001-05:00

I apologize for not letting you view the videos on this blog. Because I had made the videos private on YouTube you were not able to view them. I edited the videos and now you will be able to see all the videos on Beyond Genes. Enjoy...

It has girlish features...

2009-03-16T20:39:00.013-05:00

TJ and I had an ultrasound today. We have been patiently waiting for this day since we found our we were expecting. Before the Dr. began he made sure that we wanted to find out the sex. We assured him that we were ready. However, our little baby Armstrong wasn't ready to expose his/her gender. Baby's was head down looking at mommies legs. Therefore, we got a really good picture of the head (picture #1) and feet (#2). In addition, the legs were smashed together. Thus, the doctor was unable to tell us anything. Dr. Baldwin stated, "it has very girlish features, so I am for a girl." "Don't throw away your receipts though!" he added. TJ and I laughed. Well, what can you expect. You wait so long for the day to come and it just doesn't work out. I am hoping to get in again someone this week or next and try to get a clearer picture. Maybe then we will have a better idea than just "girlish features."

It is official...Drill Sergeant Armstrong graduates

2009-03-12T17:14:00.002-05:00

TJ graduated from Drill Sergeant School class 03-09 from Fort Jackson, SC. I was able to be there, although, peanut and I had a little bit of problems getting to daddy due to the weather. My flight from Springfield, MO was delayed due to bad weather in Dallas/Fort Worth, TX where I was supposed to fly in. Thus, when I arrived at Dallas I had missed my flight. The only other way to get to TJ was to fly into Charlotte, NC instead of Columbia, SC where I was originally supposed to go. Poor TJ had to drive 1hr and 1/2 to pick me up at around midnight the night before his graduation. We were all so tired the next day, but it was all so very well worth it. Daddy was able to feel peanut move inside of me. Something I had been waiting for him to experience since he left.

TJ considers this accomplishments to be one of the highlights in his career. He was very excited and proud of himself to be able to be this successful in this short period of time. Now comes the hard part. He has to endure 2 years of working 6-7 day work weeks with hours from 5 in the morning till about 8 at night. He isn't too worried though because this is what he really wants to do and he knows that the payoff will be tremendous. I think even more exciting than his drill sergeant graduation will be the graduation of his first cycle of basic training. I am so very excited to see him and the Soldiers that he has transformed from civilians to Soldiers, In addition, to see the gratitude and thanks he will receive from families and friends of their loved ones.

Although there was some talk about us possibly moving to Fort Jackson, SC or Fort Benning, GA due to Army drill sergeant needs. In the end, we will be staying at Fort Leonard Wood, MO and will stay here until his drill sergeant tour is over. Even though there is not much to do here, I am excited to continue our lives here in Missouri. TJ, on the other hand, saw what Fort Jackson, SC had to offer and was a little bit disappointed to return to MO. Life isn't always about the place you live, but those in which you live there with. I am excited for those memories to continue, especially once our little peanut arrives. We both realize how dramatically our lives are about to change. Although some may believe that

The stork dropped off some gifts...

2009-03-10T21:10:00.004-05:00

You don't have to do something big to make an impact in the McDougall/Armstrong family. Or the McStrongs...a ridiculous name that TJ thought up tonight when we were bumming on the couch. We received two gifts this week, actually the same day. I came home late that night from a final and was so relieved to be done with the semester and wind down for the night. Much to my surprise I had two packages waiting for me at home. I scurried up stairs and opened them as soon as I could. Aunt Kathy and Darrel Holm sent us the very cute onesie and baby blanket. Grandpa and Grandma Elbert sent us a baby bag, onesies, and a book. In addition to the gifts that we received from Christmas and throughout the pregnancy our closet is definitely growing. I guess that means that I will have to give up some closet space for little peanut. Which means, I have some organizing to do=( Thank you to everyone who has sent gifts. In addition, for your all of your love, support, and advice you have given us. We are so blessed to have such wonderful friends and family and can't wait to share our little peanut with you all. May God bless you all and comfort you in the palm of his hand.

Our baby is 1lb...

2009-03-07T16:50:00.005-06:00

Little baby Armstrong is 24 weeks old now. I can't believe how the time has flown by. It seems like we just found out we were having a baby. Now, I in 3 short months we will be meeting our little peanut. I am also finally looking pregnant as it took awhile to get the baby bump. I guess that means that more maternity clothes will be in my future. So far, I haven't had to wear any up to this point. I ended up just buying a bigger size in jeans because my belly wasn't really developed yet. I have experienced that it has become a bit harder to get out of bed and I am not as graceful as I once was with my movements. With the increased baby bump, people have started to touch my stomach more. At first, I was a little weirded out with people touching me. However, I have gotten used to my belly being rubbed and petted like an animal at the zoo. TJ and I have discussed many baby names but are not quite 100% yet. We have considered our family history and recently purchased a book to help us brainstorm and make our final decision. I know you all have been waiting as patiently as we have to find out the sex of our peanut. March 16th will be the day we find out. I can't wait to start the decorating process. Only three months to get it done...

Taking the plunge to remember Dale

2009-02-23T12:18:00.016-06:00

Christina Vaughn, WDAY, Published Monday, February 23, 2009
Hitterdal, Minn. (WDAY TV)

One month ago today, the small town of Hitterdal was shaken when 53-year-old Dale McDougall was killed by a drunk driver, but the people in town are keeping his memory alive today at the third annual Polar Fest. A group of daring people took a plunge, a handful of them doing it in honor of Dale.

As Dale McDougall's friends throw their bodies into the icy waters of Lake Flora, his daughters say he would have something to say about it.

“Oh he'd think these people were crazy, haha, he would. He would say it was goofy, but yeah, he'd think it was cool.”

In a word, Dale's daughters say he was fun. The stuff small towns are made of, but he wasn't a plunger.

“Yeah, he'd have a ball, he'd be their biggest supporter. He wouldn't jump in, but he'd probably be first in line to watch it all.”

The women know their dad would have loved to be a part of the fun today and they're touched by the kind hearts in Hitterdal, honoring their dad like this.

“I think it means a lot that they would go to such extremes for him, and put his name on it.”

“I don't think anybody wakes up in the morning and thinks they're going to jump into a lake today, or wants to do that really, so, it's kinda crazy.”

There wasn't a stranger to dale in this crowd of people. In some way or another, he knew every person standing out here today.

“He loved living here and everything about it. He was just friends with everyone here, so, it's fun to see everyone out here doing something like that for my dad.”

As these plungers pull themselves out of the icy waters of Lake Flora, it's a sight and a gesture Dale's family will always remember.

A scholarship fund in Dave's name is also being set up at the Ulen-Hitterdal school.

DS Armstrong in his DS hat and badge.

2009-02-20T19:09:00.017-06:00

TJ is preparing to graduate March 12, 2009 from Drill Sergeant school at Fort Jackson, SC. I will be flying down to watch him hit yet another milestone in his Army career. As I sit here writing, thoughts of when I was in basic training enter my mind. I remember having so much respect and admiration for my drill sergeants. There were so determined and dedicated. I could only imagine how difficult their life was due to their long exhausting days. Now, here I am today starting a life with a drill sergeant! I guess I will know exactly what they go through now. I know our schedule will be hectic and busy for the first few years, but I wouldn't take this opportunity away from TJ for anything. He was determined to do anything and everything he could to get this opportunity to wear the hat and train Soldiers. In Qatar one morning, after I had been there a couple weeks, our command team went on a run. It had been awhile since I ran in formation and I was not too excited as it is hard to stay in step. Anyway, TJ got out there and started calling cadence. I remember looking back thinking....who was that?! I was so motivated and had a great run. I felt like I could have ran forever that morning. I hadn't even met TJ at this point, but I knew that he had in him what most in the Army lack: drive and motivation. A couple days later I told him what a good job he did...but he doesn't remember that. TJ has been an inspiration to me in many ways. We need more people in our forces like him. He gets up every morning and is proud. Now, I am sure your thinking...well, how proud can he be? He gets up and he is humming or singing Army songs. Army, Army, Army....I love the Army. In December, he took leave and after two days he missed putting on the uniform. He has truly found his passion in life. I am so proud of you baby!

Leaping lizards...

2009-02-19T20:53:00.005-06:00

21 weeks already. The time seems to be going by faster than I thought. Baby Armstrong now weighs about 3/4 of a pound and is about 10 1/2 inches long. Our peanut is certainly growing and so is mommy. The only noticeable difference for me from last week is that the little one is moving quite a bit. Particularly at night I feel like my baby is pracicing karate in my stomach. Leaping Lizards! (Anyone guess what movie that quote is from...Annie. One of my favorites as a child) I don't know if this much movement is an indicator of anything...but if it is, we will have our hands full with this child! I just rub my belly to try and sooth him or her. That's right. We still don't know the sex. TJ and I find out in three weeks...March 16. We can't wait!

What does Valentine's Day mean to you?

2009-02-19T20:26:00.005-06:00

Valentine's Day to me means love. Love is one of the greatest things you can give someone. 1 Corinthians 13:4-8 says it best:

Love is patient,love is kind.
It does not envy, it does not boast,it is not proud
It is not rude, it is not self-seeking,it is not easily angered,it keeps no record of wrongs.
Love does not delight in evil,but rejoices with the truth.
It always protects, always trusts,always hopes, always perseveres.Love never fails.

This Valentine's day I felt the love of many of my friends and family...especially from two men in my life..my dad and TJ. I received a dozen long stem roses from my daddy and a build a bear from TJ. Though I was alone this Valentine's Day, I felt their love across the miles. I love you!

Modern meets antique nursery

2009-02-14T22:01:00.007-06:00

Happy Valentines Day everyone! I was excited to find out that I got the day off...only after I ran errands for 3 hours waiting for the building to get unlocked. So, this afternoon I bummed and looked for nursery items. We will be converting our extra bedroom into a nursery/guest room. The room isn't too large, so everything will have to fit just right. So far, these are my favorites. No changing table has been picked out because my father kept my changing table from when I was a baby. Also, when I was home in December, I accidentally saw my snoopy bear I had growing up that my mom is repairing. These items and other antiques left by my great grandmother "granny" are very special to me. I am very greatful that everyone has saved these items for me and my family.=)

Combat boots and pregnancy don't mix!!

2009-02-10T21:26:00.009-06:00

Army, Army, Army...I love the Army (The cadence that TJ loves to sing)

As you all know, I am in the Army Reserves. Part of that obligation is that I have to attend drill every weekend and two weeks out of the year. Well, needless to say, last months drill was the end of my regular Army Combat Uniforms (ACUs) and the beginning of maternity wear. You will notice from the picture that I was unable to button the top button...proof that my belly is growing. At first, I dreaded trying on maternity ACUs because I felt that they were going to be so uncomfortable. However, much to my surprise, they are really comfortable. Right now, I am performing my two week duties and am loving the maternity wear. I know that I will wear them as long as I possibly can. One problem that I am finding is that my feet swell during the day and by the time I take off my boots they are throbbing! On Tuesday's and Thursdays when I have class, I am in them for 14-15 hours...ouch!! Take a look at the pictures. It is pretty sad when you can tell exactly where the laces based on your leg imprints.

My hump...my lovely baby bump!

2009-02-08T18:23:00.012-06:00

Week 12

Not quite yet ready for maternity clothes...but my waist is getting quite bigger. My jeans are getting a little snug but I am still able to wear them for a little bit longer. I am experiencing a lot of nausea but not enough to the point of getting sick. Although, sometimes I think that if I got sick I would feel better. Urg!! The baby is about 2 inches long (about the size of a lime) and weighs about half an ounce. We had our first ultrasound at week 10 and saw our peanut for the first time. TJ put his ultrasound pic in his car where his little peanut can be with him wherever he goes. He has also been very good to mommy and treating me well. I better not get too used to this as he will be gone for two months at drill sergeant school. Prenatal vitamins were started after my 10 week appointment. It is important that I'm getting enough vitamins and minerals. Especially, iron as it is used to make hemoglobin which my body needs more of to keep up with the expanding blood volume. The only problem with this is the constipation it causes. After a couple weeks of testing every over the counter medicine, fiber substitute, and stool softener out there I finally figured out the right mixture for me. This was probably the worst experience of pregnancy that I had experienced thus far...

Week 15

Our peanut is about 4 inches long and weighs about 2 1/2 ounces, which is about the size of an apple. If I remember correctly, I gained about five pounds thus far. As you can see the bump is more noticeable than at week 12. I am finding it more difficult to find into many of my clothes. I am definitely wearing my "fat" jeans that I had stashed in my closet. Also, I found that I needed to purchase new bras. I always thought that I wanted to a bigger bust, however, now after wearing them for a little while I have decided that I am perfectly content with mine just the way they are =) The nausea has curbed and I don't seem to be having any other problems...so far. I was back home in North Dakota around this time. I ended up catching a flu bug that left me at home on the couch for one full day. I was extremely cold and was unable to eat anything. I also got a bloody nose. I blame all of this on ND and its cold, dry weather instead of having anything to do with being pregnant.

Week 16

Went to my 16 week appointment without TJ =( I went through the usual routine of weighing in and a check of my protein levels. Everything looks good so far. The nurse didn't believe that I even looked pregnant and I laughed. I feel like I am busting out of all of my clothes that I own! I heard the heart beat but we didn't count the beats/minute yet. The nurse also took blood for a test that used to identify chromosomal disorders such as Down syndrome. I got a call a couple days later with a report that everything is normal...wheew! I haven't felt the baby move yet but look forward to that in the future. Our peanut is about 4 1/2 inches long and weighs about 3 1/2 ounces, which is about the size of an avocado.

Week 19

Here is a little skin for you...don't blush it is only my lovely baby bump. A growing bump, I might add. I have gained about 8 pounds. Also, I have found that I needed to buy an extender that I wear with even my fat jeans. If I would hurry up and get a bump I could then I wear maternity clothes. Sad that I am looking forward to that elastic around my waist that I will need to continue to hike up after so many steps. However, I know that it has got more comfortable than what I am squeezing my fat butt into now. Peanut weighs about 8 1/2 ounces and is about 6 inches long. I believe that I felt the baby for the first time. It felt like a tapping feeling instead of gas. I don't think it was gas, but it very well could have been. Many say it is hard to distinguish between the two. I believe that once I start feeling them more regularly that I will be able to recognize the difference.

Week 20

Not much changes between week 19 and week 20. Peanut is now about 10 1/2 ounces and is about 10 inches long. I am half way...yeah! They say that the normal weight gain is about 10 pounds and I am pretty close to that. They say at this point that it will be hard to find a comfortable spot when sleeping, getting out of bed will begin to get difficult, leg craps develop and more. However, I have yet to experience any of these. The only thing recently is that I go to the bathroom more often than normal. Thank you little baby Armstrong for being nice to your mama =)

Hey you private!

2009-02-06T16:52:00.000-06:00

Currently, TJ is training at Fort Jackson, SC to become a drill sergeant. today he was issued his drill sergeant hat. He is currently about half way through his training. They were issued the hat only for the purpose of wearing it to form to their head. It is only after they complete the course that they are able to wear the hat in public.

Drll sergeant school is approximately 10 weeks long which consists of an intense peiod of activities much like recruits in basic training endure: drill and ceremony, basic rifle markesmanship, confidence courses, physical training (PT), and field training exercises. It is here they they are developed into disciplined, physically and mentally fit soliders who are held to the highest standards. The Army considers its drill sergeants to be some of its best soldiers. Drill sergeants prospects are chosen for their leadership skills, technical expertise, and the ability to handle the power that they will inherit. It is important for the Army to get the best soldiers for this job because they are shaping today's Army. We want to have the strongest and best Army to protect our country. Therefore, only the strongest drill sergeant recruits will make it through.

A drill sergeants normal tour of duty is two years. TJ will serve his tour at Fort Leonard Wood, MO and will be assigned to a basic training unit. For nine weeks during basic training the drill sergeant is expected to be a model soldier, parent, and psychologist. He or she will bear the burden of responsibility for breaking down recruits sense of selfishness and focus on sefllessness and obedience. The recruits will be introduced to a strict schedule, responsibilities and duties, and be held to high expectations. The breaks between each basic training cycle are very short. Therefore, I will be greatful for the time that he gets to be at home with me and our little peanut. I am so proud of him for getting this far and can't wait to see him walk across that stage at his graduation. I love you baby!

DRILL SERGEANT CREED

I am a Drill Sergeant
I will assist each individual in their efforts to become a highly motivated, well disciplined, physically and mentally fit Soldier, capable of defeating any enemy on today’s modern battlefield.
I will instill pride in all I train, Pride in self, in the Army, and in country
I will insist that each Soldier meets and maintains the Army’s standards of military bearing and courtesy, consistent with the highest traditions of the U.S. Army.
I will lead by example, never requiring a Soldier to attempt any task I would not do myself.
But First, Last, and always, I am an American Soldier, sworn to defend the constitution of the United States against all enemies, both foreign and domestic.
I am a Drill Sergeant.

http://www.jackson.army.mil/units/drill/index.html

Family gathers to cope with the loss...

2009-01-28T19:47:00.012-06:00

All of our family gathered to have the support of loved ones during this difficult time. I flew home Friday, Jan 23rd to be with them as well. As you can see that some of the focus was on little Jackson Mac. He was the light when so many of us felt lost and broken. We spend many hours reminiscing about Dale and his life. He left us with so many great stories. We heard from high school friends, college buddies, old girlfriends, the other side of the family and, of course, our own memories. The week was filled with much laughter and tears. It was hard to say goodbye, but during this process I realized how I needed to be more like Dale. I started to evaluate my life, relationships and more. It was so inspiring to see how many people he had touched throughout his life. I hope that throughout my life I can tough half as many as he did.

I flew back home to Missouri on the 28 th of January. I couldn't believe it, but for once Missouri had weather wore than ND!! How could that be? Dad warned me on my way home that I might run into some bad weather...but I wasn't prepared for what I would find. I walked outside the airport and it was a nice 20 degrees with a little snow on the ground. OK, I can deal with this. Well, little did I know that there were layers and layers of ice underneath that snow. After 30 minutes of warming up my car, I was still unable to scrape off the ice. It was so thick!! Finally, I was able to uncover my snowball and drive back. It turns out that we had a massive ice storm that lasted three days, Tuesday being the last of it. I guess we didn't have work Monday afternoon or on Tuesday. Wednesday we went to work 2 hours late to give the snow plows enough time to clear the roads. Boy was I glad to get home in bed after that mess!!

RIP uncle dale...we will miss you

2009-01-23T00:16:00.023-06:00

One person was killed and another remains in critical condition following a two-car head-on collision near here late Wednesday afternoon.

Robert L. McGrath, 49, of Minneapolis was airlifted to Innovis Health Center in Fargo, N.D., where he was listed in critical condition Wednesday night with compound fractures, the Minnesota State Patrol said.

The victim killed in the crash was also airlifted to Innovis Health Center, the State Patrol said, but will not release information about the victim until noon today, pending notification of relatives.

The victim was driving a 1994 GMC Sierra west on state Highway 34 while McGrath was driving a 1998 Chevrolet GMT-400 club cab pickup east on Highway 34 in the westbound land when the two vehicles collided, the State Patrol said.

The crash occurred about 4 p.m. on Highway 34 east of Nevis on wet pavement. The State Patrol said McGrath was not wearing a seat belt and that alcohol was detected.
The Hubbard County Sheriff 's assisted, the State Patrol said, as traffic had to be diverted.

http://www.startribune.com/local/38135699.html?elr=KArks:DCiUHc3E7_V_nDaycUiacyKUUr

http://www.inforum.com/event/article/id/228703/

http://www.wrightfuneral.com/content/obituaries/view.jsp?OID=44037

http://www.reviewmessenger.com/index.php?id=337:fatal-crash-on-highway-34&option=com_content&catid=78:school-board

http://www.dl-online.com/articles/?id=41217

Beyond genes has been created...

2009-01-19T20:28:00.002-06:00

TJ and I want you all to continue to be a part of our lives though many miles seperate us. I figured a blog would be the best way for us to keep you up-to-date. Our ups and downs, monthly appointments, baby bump pictures, and eventually our peanut's progress will be documented for you to see. This will also be a keepsake for us to keep for our precious little peanut. I hope that reading this will put a smile on your face =)

My first belly pics...

2009-01-07T16:35:00.003-06:00

We will keep this G rated! Obviously, I have a long way to go...but I wasn't too upset how they turned out. BTW...Michelle, did I give you a release for these photos? ha ha, j/k. I'm not there yet, but I do love these photos! Some of my favorites thus far.